Gift Your Time

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What if I were to say that I gave a local charity one thousand dollars? What would be the response? I imagine people would think it gracious, give me a pat on the back, and go on with their day. Now, what if I said that I spent a full day tutoring kids at a homeless shelter? Once again, I think I would get the same response, but it might end with a feeling of motivation. A sense of maybe “I should do something.”

This is interesting because, on paper, these two efforts are not equal. My time is nowhere close to being worth one thousand dollars. In fact, with that money, they could have hired a full-time tutor for two weeks. So why would the second scenario invoke the same, or possibly greater, emotional reaction than the first?

The answer is that time is a non-renewable resource. People recognize that money comes and goes, but time is a gift that can’t be regifted. That’s why, in the office, it is so important to be available to your employees. Your presence/absence doesn’t go unnoticed. It plays a role in the daily culture of the team. It impacts moral, happiness, comradery, etc. If you want a productive, happy, and passionate team, make yourself available.

I do this in a couple of ways:
Interact Face to Face – This is priceless. My team works in an open office environment, so I make sure my desk is right in the mix. When I’m onsite, I encourage my group to interrupt me at any time. When I’m offsite, I try to converse via video chat. This is much more intimate than email or traditional phone calls.
Schedule Time Regularly – Every two weeks I set aside an hour for every team member to get a pulse on the team. I use this time to get to know the individual as well as provide coaching as needed. My next post will dig deeper into this platform.
Provide Undivided Attention – When I am talking with one of my employees, I make sure to stop doing anything else. I don’t check emails or flip through my phone. I make them the priority. If you don’t do this, they will see that they are not the priority, and that will change your interactions in the future. If you need to finish what you are working on, it is much more respectful to ask them if you can finish. It has been my experience that no one will have a problem with that.
Don’t Appear Busy – This is probably the hardest one. Being a good leader means you are busy. However, if your employees are constantly exposed to how busy you are, they may feel hesitation about disrupting you. I recommend that if you want time for zero disruptions, use your calendar and block off time slots for focus. All other time encourage interruptions. Your team will be very responsive to this.

Time is the best gift you can give to your team, but it’s also sometimes the hardest commodity to come by. Time is scarce but the real truth is there wasn’t more of it yesterday than there is today. There is still the same number of minutes today as there will be tomorrow. The difference isn’t time, it’s priority. If you want to make time for your employees to raise morale and happiness, you need to make it a priority. Can that email wait until tomorrow? My guess is that it probably could.

Thanks for reading. If you have any experiences you would like to share, I would love to hear about them. Please leave them in the comments below.

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Share Your Ideas

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Sharing ideas at the office isn’t as easy as it seems. Despite the many modes of communication, without a formal “brainstorming” or “Idea Generation” meeting, most ideas won’t get discussed. This increases the likely hood that ideas will be reactive, decreasing your odds at innovating. I’d like to talk about some ways that you can encourage these types of discussions regularly in your organization, changing the conversation from reactive to proactive. In this article, I will go through an example and some lessons learned as we set out to solve this problem.


TED is the obvious front-runner in idea sharing. Their slogan is even “Ideas Worth Sharing.” They invite influencers from every industry and broadcast the talk for all to see. But what makes TED so successful? Is it their presenter line up? Don’t get me wrong; the presenters are nothing short of amazing. But why would already renowned industry influencers choose to use TED to communicate their message? The answer is that TED is a platform designed to be a megaphone to the world.

So what can we learn from TED at the office? Simply put, build a platform. If sharing ideas is a value to you, then make this a priority. You could start by setting aside 15 minutes at your weekly meeting to allow for an employee to educate the group on something they learned this week.

This is how the company I work for started. Fast forward 3 years and we now have a 1-hour time slot every 4 weeks for 6 presenters. The megaphone we built goes to the entire company including a live stream to two of our offsite locations. My last post Leader-Leader is a presentation I gave at our last platform (we call it Tech Faire).

Lessons Learned

Start Small – to build something for an entire company can be very expensive. The risk is much less when you can build it up with a smaller team (especially if individuals are passionate). We started with about 15 people and it slowly grew to a company-wide platform.

Create Creative Boundaries – Content for your platform needs to have quality. You don’t want speakers talking about a topic for 30 minutes. People can lose interest. TED has a presenter rule of 18 minutes. We took it a step further and limited speakers to 6 minutes and 40 seconds (20 seconds per slide). We require all our presenters to present in a 20×20 format or PechaKucha. This keeps things flowing and people engaged.

Build up the Presenters – Don’t only choose people who present well. Everyone has an idea that can bring value to the organization. If someone is uncomfortable with presenting, offer options like practice runs or a mentor. The presenters are investing their time in the audience so they should also feel invested in.

Bring in guest speakers – See if someone from outside of your direct team or organization will share something with you. Outsiders bring a fresh perspective and energize the room a little bit more.

Expect Naysayers – Like all change initiatives, there will be opposition. It usually comes in the form of concern with time and how it’s being spent. My advice is to mitigate the risk by “Start Small.” Grow your tribe and invite the naysayers to an event. You will be surprised at the turn around some will have on the idea.

Wrap Up

It’s been my experience that everyone has something interesting to share. My company has been doing this for over 3 years and every month is more impressive than the last. This has been one of the most rewarding initiatives I have been a part of and I truly believe there is a potential platform in every organization. If anyone has an experience they would like to share, please feel free to comment below.

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Leader Leader

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I gave a presentation to Associated Electric Cooperative Inc. Aug 26th regarding a topic I have become very passionate about: Leader-Leader. The recording of the presentation is below. I got the story from 2 books. Leader’s Eat Last by Simon Sinek and Turn the Ship Around by David Marquet. The sound quality isn’t 100 percent so I have a transcript below for those who would rather read it. Enjoy.


Our story starts with a man named David Marquet. He was a career submariner who finished top of his class in almost every category. One area that David Marquet excelled in was Leadership. As such, he worked his way up the promotion ladder until he received the greatest honor a navy man can receive, command of his own ship.

The now Captain David Marquet was to be command of the USS Olympia. This was a very prestigious sub. To prepare, he takes the year prior to his command and dedicates it to learning every component of the sub, including the crew. He believed that in order to gain the respect of his crew and to do his job well, he needed to know as much if not more than the crew themselves.

However, two weeks before taking command, Captain Marquet receives a call. In that call he learns that he will no longer be taking command of the Olympia, but instead the USS Santa Fe. The Santa Fe was a newer sub but not extremely different. The crew however, was another story.

The crew of the Santa Fe ranked last in nearly every readiness and retention category that the US Navy had. It was so bad that real life scenarios from the Santa Fe were used as bad examples for general Navy training. But that was ok. Captain Marquet was confident in his abilities and was up to the challenge. The Navy had shown him that Marquet would be a leader because he was given control. So it was easy for him to believe that if I give good orders, I will have a good ship, and if I give great orders, I will have a great ship. So Captain Marquet took control of the Santa Fe in January 1999 knowing that he had an uphill battle.

Fast forward a few months…Captain Marquet, after getting more comfortable with his command, decides to run a drill while out at sea. The simulation was a reactor failure (basically an engine failure). It was a standard drill, nothing out of the ordinary.

Everything was going well. The sub was running on battery power and all the crew was working on restoring the reactor. So Captain Marquet decided to shake things up for the crew. He looks to the officer on deck (the most experienced officer) and says “Ahead 2/3” meaning move forward at 2/3 the maximum speed. This would drain the battery faster and increase the urgency of the crew to get the reactor fixed.

“Ahead 2/3” the Captain said

The officer on deck confirms by saying “Ahead 2/3” to the Helmsman.

Buy nothing happened. The direction of the sub and the speed remained the same. So the captain looks at the helmsman and sees him sitting very uncomfortably in his chair and asks, “Helmsman, why did you not execute the order?”

The helmsman replied, “Sir there is no 2/3 setting.”

The ship that Captain Marquet had studied for had a 2/3 setting. The ship he was on did not.

Caught off guard by this he turns to the Officer on Deck and asks “Did you know there was no 2/3 setting?”

The Officer on Deck replied “Yes Sir.”

Caught even more off guard the Captain asked “Then why did you issue the order?”

The officer simply replied “Because you told me to.”

It was at that moment that Captain Marquet realized that he was trained for another ship and his crew was trained for compliance. In a sub this was a problem with dangerous consequences. He was getting comfortable issuing orders and his crew was getting comfortable blindly executing them. He was reinforcing a hierarchy that he questioned his entire career. He refers to it as the Leader – Follower.

In the leader follower dynamic Captain Marquet started to see a truth. He States that those at the top have all the authority and none of the information and those at the bottom have all of the information but none of the authority.


From this point forward Captain Marquet vowed to keep his mouth shut when he was on board. He wanted to turn the dynamic from 1 commander barking orders at 135 passive followers, to 135 active passionate and engaged leaders, proud and motivated about what they were doing. In order to do so, he needed to change from leader-follower to Leader-Leader.

In his book, Turn the Ship Around, David Marquet describes several practical steps he took to get here. One major step was to ban the phrase “Permission to”.

“Sir, permission to submerge the ship?”

“Premission granted. Submerge the ship”

He replaced this phrase with “I intend to”.

“Sir, I intend to submerge the ship”

The shift here is a psychological one. The chain of comman is still in tact but when initiating the command, the person that is performing the action now feels a stake in the outcome. It’s now coming from an area of intent instead of a passive task to be carried out.

Captain Marquet even took it a step further as he too didn’t blindly approve all “I intend to.” He would often find himself asking several questions before approval. So he started asking his crew to not only come prepared with what they intend to do but why they intend to do it. What he found was not only did he not have to object to many proposals, but he was correct in his assumption that the crew had the knowledge needed to make these types of decisions. They just needed a chance to vocalize them.

As an added benefit, this change caused all his crew to start thinking at the level above them. The officers on Deck had to think like the captain and so on down. This was important because the crew were literally acting their way into their promotions. This turned into a very effective leadership program.


Trust and cooperation of the crew improved so much that once the lowest ranked crew in the Navy, now they became the best ranked crew in Navy History. Before Captain Marquet took command, the reenlistment rate of the Santa Fe was 3. After he took command, it was 33. The Navy average was 15 so there was an obvious morale spike.

As for the leadership program, on average 2 to 3 commanding officers typically get promoted on a ship after tour. The Santa Fe promoted 9 of 14 officers to go on and Captain their own ship.

So what did we learn? Captain Marque was able to do this by resisting the temptation to absorb more power. When faced with the decision, he decided to not be the smartest person on the ship rather empower those around him, letting his crew feel responsible for the success of the ship.

If this topic is interesting to you, I would like you to remember 2 questions:

  1. Do I typically ask permission or do I make recommendations?
  2. If I am in a position of power, do I typically solve my people’s problems or do I empower them to solve their problems on their own?

I hope you enjoyed the presentation. If you have any feedback or stories of your own, I would love to hear them. Feel free to leave them in the comments below.

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Leading by Following

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Being a leader is a difficult goal to strive for. People say leadership takes courage, character, confidence, charisma, etc.… and they aren’t wrong. However, when defining a leader, people tend to miss the true defining characteristic: someone needs to follow. A leader isn’t a leader if they are leading no one. One could make the connection that a leader is only a leader if they were leading someone. Profound stuff I know, but at its core, the statement is extremely accurate. Any leader of value has always needed one person, and that person is known as the First Follower.

The First Follower is an underrated form of leadership. The leader typically gets the majority of the credit but it’s the First Follower that often finds themselves unknowingly determining a leader’s success. In his TED talk “How to start a movement”, Derek Sivers states that “the First Follower is what transforms a Lone Nut into a Leader.” He continues by showing a video of a lone dancer. At first glance, it is obvious that the lone dancer is very courageous, but also a bit awkward. About 10 seconds in, one person gets up and starts dancing alongside (First Follower). It only takes a second for the First Follower to start encouraging his friends to join. Around 30 seconds, dozens of people are out dancing along with more running into the group every second. With the combination of the Leader and the First Follower, they were able to start a movement within minutes. Below I outlined some responsibilities for the Leader and the First Follower to make this work.

The Leader – Although it takes a strong amount of courage to put yourself out there, its takes almost an equal amount of courage to be the first one to stand up and follow. That is why the moment you receive your first follower, its critical to raise that person up and accept him as an equal. The message must change from “follow me” to “follow us.” Future followers need to trust that everyone out there is in this together. It’s the leader’s responsibility to limit the risk to his follower while enforcing the belief that “we win together, or we lose together, not separately”.

The First Follower – You have taken a risk by being the first one to join your leader. Your job from here is to encourage the people who trust you to trust the leader. At this stage, you are now a leader yourself, so all the above statements apply. Build up anyone that decides to come along, and encourage them to encourage others. When you do, you will instantly see the impact you had on the movement.

As a closing thought, I want to encourage everyone to keep an eye out for an opportunity to be someone’s First Follower. I won’t lie, it may be hard depending on the change you decide to stand up for, but it just might be one of the most rewarding experiences you have. Not to mention it could be the only thing standing in front of success for the leader. I also encourage everyone to watch Derek’s video below. It has heavily influenced my way of thinking. And of course, please leave me comments if you have any insight to share.

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